6 Sexual Bucket List Ideas (and the Bed Nerdz Toys to Try Them With)

Everyone's got a sexy secret, a bucket list or even a "someday I'll try this" list when it comes to sex.

Whether it's a new position, a new toy, or a wild fantasy that's been quietly popping up in the back of your brain, it's time to stop saying one day and start saying 'Why not tonight?'

Welcome to the Bed Nerdz Sexual Bucket List, where we've matched the most common fantasies with one of our favourite toys to help you actually tick them off.

From outdoor adventures to threesomes and dress-up fantasies, Bed Nerdz toys are here to help you make them happen.

1. Try a Threesome (or at least, a toy-assisted version)

You don't need a third person to experience threesome-level fun and pleasure. If this is on the bucket list but making it happen still feels a little out of reach, bring in a toy that adds extra stimulation and new sensations for both of you. With threesomes among the most popular bucket list fantasies, why not bring that bucket list energy into your own bedroom, with no extra guests required? Get creative and let the toy be that secret little third you've been dreaming of.

Toy pairing: Use JOEY vibrating cock ring to keep both partners buzzing at the same time.

2. Create a Dress-Up Fantasy Night

From sassy schoolteacher to seductive superhero, dressing up is your ticket to escaping routine and landing in seductive town. Add a toy that matches the energy, and suddenly, role-play becomes a full-body experience. From soft strokes to intense vibrations, you make the rules, and you both get to explore something out of the ordinary.

Toy pairing: Use JESSE Clitoral Suction Vibrator. It's small, strong, and easy to sneak into your fantasy scene. Whether you're "in detention" or "saving the world," Jesse's got your back (and your front). Use it to stimulate the vulva, nipples and even the penis.

3. Explore Anal or Prostate Pleasure

Anal play still lands on most people's "one day" list, and when done right, it can be game-changing and extremely rewarding. The key is the right toy, patience, and lube (lots of it). Remember to take it slow, start small and have fun with it.

Toy pairing: Use the BODHI Prostate Massager, designed for comfort and control. Bodhi helps you explore deeper sensations safely. It also features a remote control for added convenience and fun.

Beginner tip: Take your time, use plenty of lube, and focus on pleasure, not performance.

4. Try Edging or Orgasm Control

If you've never tried holding off an orgasm until you really can't anymore, you're missing out. It's the ultimate tease and can even lead to big, longer and more intense orgasms. Edging can be a fun experience for everyone involved, as you get to tease and be teased until you can't take it anymore.

Toy pairing: Use the SANDY Remote Bullet to control intensity, hand over power, or switch roles. Edging builds tension, connection, and mind-blowing release.

Bucket-list goal: See how many times you can almost get there before giving in.

5. Record Your Own "Private Movie"

Lights, camera, orgasms. Whether you're solo or partnered, recording your own session can be a massive confidence boost and a huge turn-on. Just remember that both people need to consent to this, and watching it back once and then deleting it can also be an option for peace of mind.

Toy pairing: Use CALI The Wand Massager, guaranteed to look incredible on camera. Set the mood, adjust the lighting, lock the door, and get ready to make something you'll actually want to rewatch.

Necessary: Always maintain privacy and consent at all times.

6. Turn Your Bedroom into a Doctor's Room

Remember playing doctors as a kid? Curious about the body. Well, why not play it as adults now that you know your way around? Get a little sensual with some massage oil, extra tools and even use our dice to determine your fate in the sheets!

Toy pairing: Use the MIKI Curved G-Spot Vibrator as it hits the right angle every time and adds variety to your play. Combine it with blindfolds or temperature play for an "I didn't see that coming" kind of night.

Let Bed Nerdz Take You There

Sexual bucket lists aren't about performance or keeping up with anyone else or the movies you see; they're about curiosity and having fun. Whether your fantasy is a threesome, an outdoor escapade, or a full-costume role-play, adding toys from Bed Nerdz brings your imagination to life.

Make your list. Grab your toys. And start ticking things off, one orgasm at a time.